Showing posts with label oh yes I did. Show all posts
Showing posts with label oh yes I did. Show all posts

Thursday, May 17, 2012

May is...



Did you guys know that May is National Masturbation Month? I swear I had no idea. I do not know who comes up with this stuff but I find this one particularly interesting. I believe that there is nothing wrong with masturbation. In all honesty, I think that people, especially, women, need to know what works for their bodies first. If you know what works for you, then you can tell your partner how to get you there. There used to be a shroud of embarrassment that went along with touching yourself. The truth of the matter is there is no shame in knowing your body. It's yours. As a woman, you have to be comfortable enough within yourself to get yourself THERE! And, a man has to know what works for you to get you there as well.



So, in honor of this month, I found a few pictures as well as song that are an ode to the month. I know some believe that this topic is sort of taboo. I say its a part of life, whether we acknowledge it or not. I remember the first time I heard that masturbation was wrong. I wasn't old enough to really know what it was or why it was wrong. But, the reality is, kids talk and they hear things when people think they aren't listening. Learning about my body has been quite an experience. It was a a curious start and a very comfortable finish. I know my body, what I like and what I love. And, that can never be viewed as a bad thing. I think every one should get to know themselves intimately.



It's a subject that has lost its taboo in my mind as I got older. It came with the territory of learning myself and my sexuality. Oh and this next picture is just for your info. Pay attention :) So, hey touch yourself or allow someone to watch you touch yourself. Either way, enjoy the month of May. It's been a long time coming. Ha!





Friday, March 02, 2012

Let's Talk About...

...Threesomes. They play out in porn scenes as if they are a natural normal everyday occurrence. I know some who have indulged in this fantasy. Some say it was everything they dreamed it would be. Others say that they would never try it again. Is it just a fun fantasy? Or are couples inviting trouble into their relationship by bringing in a third person? I'm not exactly sure on this one. It could be a just a little extra spice to an already healthy and active love life.

The reality is I've never had one. But, I can honestly say that the idea intrigues me. No, I'm not gay or bi. As a woman, I can appreciate the beauty of another woman. I want to have one with me, my man and another woman. My main objective is my pleasure in this situation. Meaning her pleasing me and possibly pleasing my guy. I want to get it out of my system. I'm open minded when it comes to things in my sexuality. It's a fantasy that I could see coming true.

Sex talks can be a touchy, iffy topic. Some aren't very comfortable discussing such things. I am not of that class. I'm confident and comfortable with all of it. The topic of Threesomes was brought up in a Facebook group I'm in. It's interesting to read others opinions and stances on the topic. Some surprised me, some even shocked me. So I decided to expand on it here. So, can we talk? Have any of you had a threesome experience. Tell me your stories. I'm all ears.