...Threesomes. They play out in porn scenes as if they are a natural normal everyday occurrence. I know some who have indulged in this fantasy. Some say it was everything they dreamed it would be. Others say that they would never try it again. Is it just a fun fantasy? Or are couples inviting trouble into their relationship by bringing in a third person? I'm not exactly sure on this one. It could be a just a little extra spice to an already healthy and active love life.
The reality is I've never had one. But, I can honestly say that the idea intrigues me. No, I'm not gay or bi. As a woman, I can appreciate the beauty of another woman. I want to have one with me, my man and another woman. My main objective is my pleasure in this situation. Meaning her pleasing me and possibly pleasing my guy. I want to get it out of my system. I'm open minded when it comes to things in my sexuality. It's a fantasy that I could see coming true.
Sex talks can be a touchy, iffy topic. Some aren't very comfortable discussing such things. I am not of that class. I'm confident and comfortable with all of it. The topic of Threesomes was brought up in a Facebook group I'm in. It's interesting to read others opinions and stances on the topic. Some surprised me, some even shocked me. So I decided to expand on it here. So, can we talk? Have any of you had a threesome experience. Tell me your stories. I'm all ears.
I could never have a threesome only because I'm waaaay too jealous! I would wonder if she was doing a better job than me or something but that's just my insecurities *shrug*
ReplyDeleteI get that. But, I believe that one has to be super confident to even attempt to go down this road. One has to be secure enough to know what will & won't change in the relationship. The reality is this: if sex is thevonly thing keeping a man, there isn't much to keep. I also think a woman learns more about herself & her sexuality once she hits 30. There is just a lightbulb that clicks on & if you're lucky things just make more sense. If I were to do it, it would be mostly about me since it's my fantasy.
ReplyDeleteI never had one, but I wouldn't mind trying it at least once.
ReplyDeleteThanks Anonymous One. That's my take on it too.
ReplyDeleteI wasn't expecting that from you. I'm shocked! In an utmost respectful way of course. I do not see a threesome in my future. At least, for certain, not with another woman... It would have to be another he. Good post! Kind of taboo for a woman... but not anymore!
ReplyDeleteThe reality is in many polls women were asked to name their fantasies. Threesomes were hella high on that list. Don't be shocked. I'm a very complex, multilayered chick ;-) lol.
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