There are a lot of "artists" that I just don't get. I do not see or hear their talent. I can however see their lack thereof. The music business is full of a lot of fluff with no substance. I miss real music. Listening to the radio makes me so sad. There is a lack of creativity and deep thought in music. Actually the things I have been hearing mostly is crap. There is no other way to describe it. And, just because its selling does not mean that it is good music. There are a few artist that I will support.
I know that the business is about the "total package" but it seems the "talent" portion of that package is not necessarily a must. I wonder how some of these people even got deals. It's amazing to me that they have blown up. It seems that the "audience"accepts meritocracy as excellence. We are been force fed junk. I don't listen to the radio or watch 106 & Park for this reason. I like discovering new and under appreciated acts. I like to listen to things others haven't heard of yet. The underrated artists will always have my support. I will legally download their work.
I decided to just compose a short list of the artists that I feel are underrated. They don't get the shine they deserve. They produce great music and give great shows. Their record labels seem to not see their full potential. I really don't get it. Obviously, they were talented enough to be signed. But, sometime after that, things changed. I am hoping that the industry takes a major turn. I would love for things to get back to the feel good R&B of the late 80's and 90's or the make you think as well as move Hip Hop of yesteryear. I will keep my fingers crossed for that. Underrated or not, I love the music of these artists. What do you think? Who's underrated to you?
**My List**
- Corrine Bailey Rae - Vivian Green - Ledisi - Joe - Avant - Teedra Moses - Carl Thomas - Tweet - Syleena Johnson - Wale - Chrisette Michelle (minus most of her last cd) - P!NK - India Aire - Solange Knowles - Monica - Brandy - Amerie - Joe Budden
Are you a flirt? Do you even know how to flirt? I can honestly say that I am. I always say that it is learned behavior. My Dad was the ultimate flirt. The man was smooth. I have to give him that. There is an art to flirting. If done right, there will be nothing one can't get. I think that people get things misconstrued when it comes to flirting. i can flirt with someone I have no vested interest in. Flirting is supposed to be light and fun. It is not always a serious "I'm trying to get at you" act. I flirt because I can. I know how far to go. I also know that most people do not get that.
In all honesty, when I really like someone I can be really shy. I hold back some on the flirting. Why? because I like dude. There is something about him that peaks my interest. Therefore, I don't wanna treat him like everyone else. He is different. He has my eye. That is something special to me. I'm never really flirting to get the guy. That is not the end goal to me. Flirting is about making the time pass quicker, enjoying a party more, and getting a laugh from a man or two. I like to have fun, I love to laugh. Flirting is a sure way to get that.
I also flirt to see what I can get. A free drink or two in the club, comped whatever wherever, something extra in a store. That gives me a rush. It's a little bit of a high for me. I do not consider flirting playing with someones emotions. If you take flirting super serious, then what's left? Flirting is about the possibilities of things. Maybe I'll give you my number, hell maybe I'll tell you my real name. Flirting is a part of my personality and charm. It's who I am. I flirt a lot more when I'm single and out and about. When I'm in a relationship, I know that I have to curb some of that out of respect for my significant other. I have no problem with that.
I love to flirt with a man who can hang with me. One who can give as good as he gets. That is a great thing. It's not very often I come upon that. And even less frequently with someone I would consider dating. But, sometimes the stars align and you meet that one who complements you in flirting. That is something unique and special. A connection that is not to be taken lightly. That person is a kindred spirit, a cosmic twin. I found that. And, I'm holding on for life. Flirting is a sport. It's a fun exercise. Just know that everyone you flirt with will not have the same mindset as you. Flirt with caution people!
